What does she say when you ask her who you are supposed to share your love with in a physical way?
Ask her how she thinks she might feel if you decided never to talk with her again because you just don't feel like it, you don't get anything out of it, and since you don't, she shouldn't mind that either. You can have a discussion three or four times a year, but other than that, you really have no interest in speaking with her.
See if she, just as an exercise, can imagine that, and to have her tell you how she might feel about that?
