WAW and me in 11th hour!!!!

[Ken62]

Believe it or not I have heard what all of you vets have said and I believe it. I am done being a "gay boyfriend" and I have been heavily disrespected by my W. I just sent her the following text:

"I have thought and prayed a lot since hearing about your visitor last week. I have come to the conclusion that you broke the promise you made to me on our anniversary when you chose to sleep with him. I feel that I have put up with a lot of hurtful and disrespectful things from you for the last year and that I deserve better! I have decided that I am moving on! Goodbye!"

D is final in 2 months and W will be leaving before then (possibly 1.5 months) and looks at me as a "friend" and that is not what I want and that is not how I should be treated.

To answer some of Robx's questions. We have been separated for 5 months with her living in the apartment for the last 3. We have not been intimate within those five months and her EA with OM just became a PA last week (I believe) when he came to visit her for Easter/my BD.

Haven't heard aything back and don't know if I will but I do NOT regret sending the text! I have my three kids who will all be in town this weekend and they have been very spportive of me throughout this whole process and who I need to focus on as well as myself. I made great friends doing the show who were also very supportive and they will help me through this as well as my siblings and C.

Thanks for all the help everyone!