So weird evening last night, H texts me to ask if I had plans this weekend and if we could get together to talk. Talking is good b/c he never wants to talk about R issues, but I don't know what it's in regards to or if it's good or bad(D, moving forward, etc). I respond that that sounded good and asked what day he wanted to meet, in which I suggested Friday. This is where it gets weird - he replies back that he doesn't know yet b/c he might be going to Hawaii for 2 days. WHAT?! I don't know if he was just pulling my leg or what b/c it doesn't make sense to ask me to meet with him but then not even know if he's going to be around or not. Second, if he is going, what in the world is he going to Hawaii for? Third, who is he going with? And forth, if he has all this extra money to go on vacations, then he needs to be paying me child support! Like I said, I think he might have just been pulling my leg, but if it is true, those are defintiely questions to ask! But I wasn't going to let him get to me (or at least not let him know that), so I just said back, "oh, when are we leaving?". I didn't hear back from him, but later on he texted to ask how S was doing, so I have him a short answer on that, and that was it. Weird evening though. I was actually surprised H texted and "gave in" so easily. If seems like often, he won't contact me first just out of principle of the matter. So I don't know...I guess we'll see what this weekend holds. If we do meet, I just hope I'm strong enough to say my piece and set the boundaries. It's one thing to say, but it's another thing to do. Must be strong!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
