I do have one question to those wise dbers out there...how do I respond to those you look nice comments? I think I should just say thank you. Do I also comment on how she looks? Probably not but figured I would ask. Also, since the blow up about the OM, I wonder if she thinks that I am "ok" with it since we are being somewhat pleasent. Is this normal?
I think that you do what you feel you need to do...
If you want to tell her she smells nice, or looks nice, then do it.
Just own it, and mean it when you do....
DO NOT expect anything in return from her.
Would telling her that send you into an orbit ?
Only you know what you need to do right now, and how close you choose to allow yourself, and how you interact.
Remember how you got to where you are, and the road you have already walked.
How painful some of those steps felt, and think about how much more it will hurt to get dragged backward over those steps.
