still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[flowmom]

I guess regarding the L, I feel better that I have a L picked out and who I trust. I know that she can handle any kind of D, and I know that if H suddenly starts something legal, I have someone in my corner ready to help me and answer questions. She is just an email or phone call away. I also can start doing the paperwork that I need to do so that she has all the info that she needs from me to start my file. H doesn't know about the L...in fact I'm only telling 2 people about it IRL.