Thanks for that, dday. Already did what you suggest yesterday. Told her I would be there when she needs me. This is very, very hard, and difficult to know what to do.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012