one thing someone told me, dont stress about the inlaws. Although it may seem as though they are picking up for their son, it doesnt mean they agree with him. I am sure she is as hurt for him and she is for you. Would you want to see you child making the huge mistake these WAHs are making by leaving their pregnant wives, instead of embracing the beauty and miracle of these little babies! It took me a while to get that.
Lots of luck with the BIL. I am not sure I would ask H to not enter when he drops his brother off... not sure if either would benefit you. Although you can show him your 180 and how strong you are and have gotten if he does come inside. but make sure you are strong enough to handle that first. Maybe the chicken H is using his brother as a middle man? im not sure.
G, what if there is no OW. My H is livining with his parents and is home every weekend. we share most of the same friends. Why would she still hide 3 months later? I would much rather know there is someone else than to think i was just that awful. i do however think he could have possibly had an EA and maybe him realizing he had feelings for someone else, made him see he really didnt love me? Im not sure. We now are about 5 city blocks away from one another. I guess if he is having an A with OW, they are still sneaking around and hiding. H swears on every living thing that there is absolutely no one. I dont know what to think anymore.
I am 27 weeks... you two are both further along than me!
Off to work now... i really need to GAL and stop spedning so much time on here. but this is part of GAL right? chatting with friends?
