Oh BJ, I hear you. What is too fast, too slow in this new world we find ourselves in? Strangely I have kept to my no kissing on the first date rule but that really may have been becasue the kids were there in the car and might have peeked!
Maybe it is all decided by what we want from the relationship. I think I have said I don't want marriage right now but I am also not into FWB. So dating I suppose is what it is. I have never dated more than one guy at a time and it isn't as if I have a crowd around my door anyway. When I was talking to J last week, it came up that I always seemed to be dating someone, never went too long without a boyfriend. It wasn't because I needed a guy, just more like the timing was right to try out the next one.
I think it also has to be what feels right for you. If things are moving too fast or too slow you have every right to say something. Just know that there isn't a guarantee that the guy will be on the same page.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
So I emailed Dan to confirm he is going full-on with our living arrangements (hate the word custody)plan starting this week...
That means kids are with him tonight through Sunday evening!!! That is good actually bc I have plans tonight and then tomorrow night I am working another track meet and would have needed my mom to take the kids. Last time it was his weekend he took them Weds night, but then I had them Thursday, then he had them Fri-Sun.
This will be Sydney's first time ever going 4 nights without me I think...even when I took Nathan to Disney and when Dan and I went to Vegas those were 3 night trips...
Hey BBJ---just catching up, It is good that you are busy this first long weekend as I suspect that this might be tough so good luck!
How about our Cards! I am going to the game on Thursday for the first business mans special of the year!!! Hope all is well for you, also I think from reading you are up near Omaha area? If so is all of your dang snow gone yet? I travel there a week a month for work and the weather you get there is unreal compared to back home here!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
Hey BBJ---just catching up, It is good that you are busy this first long weekend as I suspect that this might be tough so good luck!
How about our Cards! I am going to the game on Thursday for the first business mans special of the year!!! Hope all is well for you, also I think from reading you are up near Omaha area? If so is all of your dang snow gone yet? I travel there a week a month for work and the weather you get there is unreal compared to back home here!
OK you have inspired me...wonder if I could get a last-minute ticket to Saturday's game against the Mets? That would be so random of me! But so fun...
Our snow is all gone finally! Been in the 70s for a few days in a row now which is awesome. Hit 80 the other day in fact. Just mowed for the first time yesterday.
I miss St. Louis it was awesome. Although we got ice more than snow if I remember right....loved Wichita for the severe weather outbreaks (we are supposed to get some thunder today and I can't wait!)but St. Louis is my fave place I have lived...
I will have tons to keep me busy, I am more worried about the kidlets missing me. But they need to get used to daddy time bc I want them to have a strong relationship with him!
wow lol, I needed some cleansing brain time, glad I came to this thread bbj!! I think I have alot of the same feelings as you on dating, and well getting back in the saddle, and I sure as hell aint gonna be a booty call or a peics of donkey! lol!! Ya know I realize dating now days sure isnt what dating was back when I was young........
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Wow....could get roundtrip to st louis for $280, and ticket in the Champions Club section (full food/drink inclusive) for Saturday's game.....RESIST the URGE!!
uh am I supposed to talk you out of it lol???? well lets see....not gonna lol!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
There might/might not be 4 seats available gratis in section 161 row 3. Just sayin.....
It is nice to have your seats thru a "corporate" sponsor we get upgraded every year. This year we got taken care of really well because alot of the corporate tickets did not get renewed, something about the economy being bad!?? So as long as keep renewing our seats I figure might be in the dugout in a couple of years!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
There might/might not be 4 seats available gratis in section 161 row 3. Just sayin.....
It is nice to have your seats thru a "corporate" sponsor we get upgraded every year. This year we got taken care of really well because alot of the corporate tickets did not get renewed, something about the economy being bad!?? So as long as keep renewing our seats I figure might be in the dugout in a couple of years!
Wow.....do I get to wear my Pujols Tshirt??
I'm thinking, I'm thinking..... (Picture the Thinker in Night at the Museum 2)
