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Unfortunately have have no intel on this trip. The only thing I will have is me reading her actions and mood when I see her next week.




The trip itself is intel. The trip itself is evidence.
These things ARE evidence of a very possible OM in the picture.
Those ARE her actions. When there is an affair going on it is very very normal for the WS to take a trip with a "friend"..

The friend is "cover" so that you won't suspect anything.
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book for affair people.



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W is going away for 4 days with D friend who is a bad influence. I'll let her enjoy her time then drop my own bomb.




She is going to enjoy her time for sure. And here you are
helping and still wanting to be in denial. Get with the program. Either let go or do your homework and find someone to spy on her while she is on this trip. The evidence points a very real possibility that there is SOMETHING going on BESIDES a trip with a GF.