Sorry to jump in here like this, but I have to say, this whole DBing thing is so bloody complicated and confusing!
I've been on this site for a year and a half. I have my own ongoing saga. I've read so many situations, I've read relationship books. Each time I think I understand something, a thread like this comes along to throw it all back up in the air.
Where does the WAW that wants all this sex with their LBH fit into the "script"?
From all I've read, I thought that the W not wanting sex with the H is the beginning of the end for a M. I've heard a divorce lawyer say "If they're still having sex, then the M can be fixed, otherwise it's hopeless." I've read MWD say "The physical relationship comes last in rebuilding a M. Friendship needs to be re-established first, then dating each other, then finally a physical relationship."
Seems like there are a few different "scripts" that play out. This one seems the most confusing though.
Read that last part, when you first met your wife or girlfriend, you were both physically attracted to each other, you starting seeing each other, dating and the physical side of the relationship (kissing, touching, sex, etc.) came into play almost immediately within the first few dates and you looked forward to the next date and time to see each other because it was another chance of the excitement and pleasure associated with the physical attraction. You began dating regularly and a friendship formed and you started a relationship.
