Where does the WAW that wants all this sex with their LBH fit into the "script"?
The WAW that has another man but still doesn't want to let go of her husband just in case things don't work out with the OM as per the 'fantasy' plan. The husband is the safe backup plan option, BJ how do you like feeling like the "safe backup plan option", does it make you feel all warm & fuzzy?
The WAW gives her LBH sex in this situation to "tag" him, he believes that she still wants him, he maintains that emotional connection to her and she knows this because men associate a strong emotional loving connection with their wives through sex, while his wife is actually still actively pursuing the OM and really has no intention of an emotional connection and loving relationship with her husband while the OM is in the picture.
Yes we've been relegated to the roles of mere animals, civilized logical decisions have no effect or place in this dynamic. Emotions trump logic each and everytime, any LBH on this forum should be able to attest to this:
"I've tried everything, kissed her ass, rubbed her feet, bought her gifts, dinners, moved out of the bedroom, moved out of the house, watch the kids when she dates the OM, pledged my undying love and she still wants to divorce me and be with the OM, what should i do???"
