I hear you on the no sex part even though my wife and I have not been together as long as you and your wife. It does not bother me as much as her having an affair. The thing I am most concerned with is the missing love element in the marriage more than the physical contact. It is important for me to get that back because the other would more naturally follow.
I have to keep focused on myself and hopefully the marriage will follow that. My interest is to end the affair!
Keep up the positive attitude. I know it is very difficult!!!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
