It just boggles the mind how she could do this to the kids. My D4 is confused and D14 is beside herself. I'm doing my best to comfort her, but she's old enough to understand.
This hurts like hell, and I'm letting myself suffer for it. I want her back in the house with us where she belongs.
Look I mentioned this before and I say it again, when a WAW starts rationalizing her actions and leaves the kids behind and starts acting poorly and making poor decisions with regards to the well being of her children but focuses on her appearance and making sure she looks good (priorities are out of whack), this signals to me that there is another man. I know you've told me there isn't or that you don't know that there is but think about it. Shows up looking like little Miss Hottie to the airport, drops you off afterwards, her actions appear to be illogical and harmful when it comes to talking to the kids and caring for them, if she went to the airport dressed to kill but not for you, who for then? Do you really believe she got all dressed up like that just so that she could spend 5 minutes with you at the airport and then drop you off without spending anytime with you? Where did she have to go that she couldn't spend any quality time with her husband that just came back from a tour of duty where his life may possibly have been in danger?
Yes I know, there is no other man.... until you find out about him and then you'll be posting on here telling us how "it boggles the mind that could do this to you & the kids".
The warning signs are there, take it for what it is, maybe time for you to gather some intel.
