Thanks. I'm going to wait a few days then ask him if he wants the d. I feel deep in my heart that he doesn't want the d but does not know how to trust me again. Every time we get together I do something that sets him off...this time it was not ANNOUNCING the arrival of the continuance via certified mail. I know he doesn't want the d but neither does he want to live with someone that may do this to him AGAIN (file for d). (He says he won't marry again...2 strikes are enough for him...but isn't breaking up with a long-time galfriend much the same pain wise just no assets involved like homes and children.?.)
I just don't know how to get back the trust I've lost with him. How can I do that now? or after the d?
