Officer, I am not sure if you're asking me if I think you should pull the trigger(no pun intended) I haven't followed your post too much.
Since I don't have a OM in the picture(or at least I don't think I do) I don't think I could offer you much advice.
From your sign on date it looks like you have been here only 2 months which I feel is not enough time for a drastic move. But everyone is different. Keep taking your DB coach's advice for now and don't do your W dirty work.
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