When did you decide to reconcile?

[4luv]

Thx Abbey and dday.

I am actually the one that moved out of our house and moved to my parents' house which is 6 hours from where husband is. We haven't discussed who would move to where but I told him last night that I want to take things slow. He offered to make the trip to where I am everyother weekend so that we could spend time together.

I had time to think things over and I am going to pretend that husband's reconciliation speech didn't happen. I have a thread in the infidelity forum "The Dreaded Limbo" where I basically spell out why. I just didn't see the remorsefulness. I also don't like the fact that husband is willing to do "whatever I need him to do" to work on the marriage. He is putting the work back in my hands. I am going on as usual...if he comes around great but if he just drops the ball then I have my answer. The only thing I am willing to do is to pass on the name and number of a GOOD family therapist or individual counselor.

Thanks for yall insight. When/if I actually do get to piecing I can see that you both are a great example to follow.