Sorry for keeping asking for advice, but I am a bit lost here. W wants D, and Monday morning I agreed (am told by many of you this is a big mistake). W has been in a major downward spiral since that time, and I am very, very worried about her. Massive depression, the future is very black. Thousand yard stare. The realization that it is over, which she wants, is hitting hard. Do I just ignore everything? Do I reach out?


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012