Sorry for keeping asking for advice, but I am a bit lost here. W wants D, and Monday morning I agreed (am told by many of you this is a big mistake). W has been in a major downward spiral since that time, and I am very, very worried about her. Massive depression, the future is very black. Thousand yard stare. The realization that it is over, which she wants, is hitting hard. Do I just ignore everything? Do I reach out?
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012