Cindy - I have been following your post but before I could post a reply someone else beat me to my point. But I do agree with Working in that my WAW felt that she needed a Final order before she could even start to think about working on a new R. if you look at my thread "the wall starts to fall" you will see that on the day of our final hearing we had a great date, and have had even more and better dates after. The Final order does not have to be the end but can be the start of an even better R. Keep your chin up. (incidently - my ex's name is Cindy)
