It's only been two nights on the couch....and I feel you encouraged/promoted last night's night on the couch. Don't get hung up on it.Lol- I was just thinking - you could stay on the couch with him!!!!! (Or arrange sleepovers for the kids so that they have a 'sleep in' themselves with their friends and they want the room the couch is in as well - all night movies etc., but might want to use their own bedrooms later; that way your H might not have the choice of using the couch or the childrens' bedrooms?)
I would try and make sure the family things you do are ALL things you know your H likes....so if he doesn't include himself it looks strange to the children etc.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
