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Thanks for the bump on my thread, Mf. HUGS And thanks for the attention.

Updates.

Well, my life is going really well right now. Still on “The Plan” with the No Contact with the W. And I’m coming to some realizations of my own:

1.) I think the W is truly gone. I know some the DB vets will say, it’s still too early to tell. But I know my W, and if she has made up her mind, it will be for good.
2.) With how I have been feeling, I just might be okay with her decision.
3.) I like myself better now. I shouldn’t allow myself to settle for anything less than I deserve.
4.) Even if the W was to want come back, I’m not sure I could do it.
5.) I’ve met some amazing friends on these boards.

Add it all up and I’m not sure what it means. Maybe this D wasn’t meant to be busted. I’m not sure, but I think I’m coming closer to a decision everyday. I welcome comments.

--Fergie

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Fergie:

I see you like lists, too. smile

It all looks good on paper. Continue the journey.

You are okay.
You do like yourself.
You had better not just settle, or I'll have to screen the candidates for you.

To have a friend, you have to be one. Nicely done.

Good Job, Schmoopy. (Where's Jeff? LOL)


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I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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Mindfull,

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You had better not just settle, or I'll have to screen the candidates for you.
I'm not settling anymore. But I'll still take you up on your offer. I'll let you pick the the first candidate who has dibs on me. smile

Thanks for being there.

And you're Schmoopy.

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It's a disease! smile

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I just wanted to send you some hugs.. I'm going through one of those waves myself.


M: 32
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S:5
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D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
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Originally Posted By: Fergie


And you're Schmoopy.



No you're SCHMOOPY!!!
uggg.... look what I've been dragged into, a seinfeld episode from an alternate universe....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mii8aJklEOg

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Rob is Shmoopy, TOO! How did I get so lucky to be here w/you two?

Ferg - Reminds me of lunch! LMAO


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

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Love the YouTube comment:
"People who act like that should be arrested!!!"

Facebook group you might like:

I hate seeing people makeout in public...get a room!

--Ferg
/Schmoopy
//Remember everyone... PDA awareness
///Rob is schmoopy

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Once had a college friend--lived on same floor in the dorms--she and her boyfriend always did the "Hang up.....no YOU hang up....No You Hang Up" game....blech!!!


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I'm officially a fan. LMAO

BBJ - LOL You hit logout. No YOU hit logout.




Last edited by mindfull; 04/14/10 04:42 PM.

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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