Originally Posted By: mindfull
Tim:

Hi - I will read more about your sitch later, but...

If you can do a search, find my earliest threads. I think they would be quite helpful in - coming off of turmoil, and coming in to domestic peace. I did that very well. Too well, in fact. But, it will get you to a place of being able to think, grow, and act appropriately. I just hope it doesn't take you two years to get it, like me!

HUGS!!!

Lots of little ones! Do you get much of a break?


I will go look now..I think if I just kept my cool and just worried more on myself and not on him, I'd be better off. I just have a hard time accepting that this is my life right now. I loathe him for doing this...

Well I work FT and he works from home when he isn't overseas. Being that he is going back on Monday, now I'll have to disrupt the kids schedules and have to depend on others to make sure my kids get to where they need to go. it sucks


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson