Hi - I will read more about your sitch later, but...
If you can do a search, find my earliest threads. I think they would be quite helpful in - coming off of turmoil, and coming in to domestic peace. I did that very well. Too well, in fact. But, it will get you to a place of being able to think, grow, and act appropriately. I just hope it doesn't take you two years to get it, like me!
HUGS!!!
Lots of little ones! Do you get much of a break?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.