Thanks, SA.

If he's still deep in the tunnel, I really don't know how much more of this I can take. Or the kids can take. He is being really selfish, a parody of a husband and father.

The job jeopardy has to do with outside influences on the company. I don't think he's in that much trouble, but he's feeling pressure because of external factors.

I don't know if there's really all that much more to it. I think he just misses us. But he also actually likes living on his own and chasing women.

What exactly is there to do about that?
If he enjoys his own company, the opportunties he has to socialize in the big city, the fact that everyone wants to invite a single successful man to their parties, and the chance to have almost any woman he wants for the next 5 years, what am I supposed to do?