VETERANS VIEWS ON WALKING AWAY.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Ruined, thanks for the reply and for sharing your post.

I have reached the turning point and I have decided I will no longer be in limbo. I am going to start doing things for ME now and I don't care what W thinks. We only get one life and time sure goes fast.
I deserve to be treated better and I am not going to stand in idle waiting for it to happen.

I am going to contact a realtor and start looking forward in my life. I am also going to contact W and set this meeting up to discuss our assets and custody. I need to to this for me.

This is what I want! If she doesn't like it then she is going to thinking.

It's not that I don't love H or want my M to end, it was the realization that I love me more. Seems a much more psychologically healthy place to be. H has made it clear through word and deed that he doesn't want me. H painted me into a corner; there's only one choice, and that is move on

Right on the money here. I haven't recieved one ounce of evidence that she wants anything different. She is just prolonging this for whatever her reason is and it's now my turn to take control!

I'm glad to see people enjoy this thread. Britts post woke me up.