The dreaded LIMBO

[june72]

4luv! Alarm bells are going off in my head! I want to scream don't do it!!!
I think Allen is so right here. But also, I know Allen would disagree, I think, IMO, you should end it with him.

A sociopathic personality takes years of hard work to change. Personality disorders are very ingrained and difficult to change.

DO you really want to be with a master "manipulator"? waiting for the other show to drop, KWIM?

I mean yes, perhaps this man can change but how long do you want to wait?

I don't mean to be negative here, don't mean to offend.... just you and your son deserve a healthy well adjusted person.

I think it still is "all about him".

I am sorry, I feel so very strongly that he is a seriously screwed up person and I question weather he can really do honest change. And if you should wait for that possible change....

I say total 100% no contact. Asif the man were actually dead. He has done so very much and honestly- he needs to just focus on fixing himself. Trying to repair a relationship with you is like putting the cart before the horse. This man CAN NOT have a healthy relationship with anyone....IMO...