It's so hard! to let him go. I want to hang on. but you are right i need to let him go....he doesn't want the d but doesn't want the dismissal or the continuance. I don't understand. You are right I will need to go in at the hearing and dismiss the continuance and go for the d.
Quote: Your children need the stability which doesn't mean they can't see their father, but it sounds like H is only available when H wants to be available anyway. Cindy, you need to get strong, you need to be happy, you need to let him go in your heart and work on you, that's all we can do when this happens.
In my heart I want a miracle so that this can stop but in reality the d approaches like a runaway train and there is no way to stop it. My h won't say stop nor can I financially afford to dismiss. I'm going to have to get out of my h's way and let him d me.
You are not harsh. The reality of this situation is harsh...that you can love someone so much that you'll allow them to stomp on your heart and come back for more--that is harsh. To see my h not get how much I love him, is sad. But then hey maybe he sees me as a back stabbing woman that says she wants to be married but keeps her attorney on staff just in case! Oh, well since I don't really know what he thinks but I know what I think...I'll have to make myself happy.
