Very good advice Pearl, I am struggling with stepping up, and taking a leading roll, with talking down, and being the ass.
My mindset has been, if she wants to put it all our troubles on me, then I want control over the whole situation.
I understand how it must have made her feel, when I told her to sit down, but, I felt that she was acting like a child, then she should have been treated like one. Probably not the best idea.
Yesterday, she broke out to be nicer, no touching or anything like that, but a lot more pleasant conversation and a call today when I was on the road visiting clients to have a safe trip home. She would have not done that the day before.
Another day of DB'ing and non pressuring with any kind of physical advances. Will let her decide when it is appropriate.
