Thanks for the bump on my thread, Mf. HUGS And thanks for the attention.
Updates.
Well, my life is going really well right now. Still on “The Plan” with the No Contact with the W. And I’m coming to some realizations of my own:
1.) I think the W is truly gone. I know some the DB vets will say, it’s still too early to tell. But I know my W, and if she has made up her mind, it will be for good. 2.) With how I have been feeling, I just might be okay with her decision. 3.) I like myself better now. I shouldn’t allow myself to settle for anything less than I deserve. 4.) Even if the W was to want come back, I’m not sure I could do it. 5.) I’ve met some amazing friends on these boards.
Add it all up and I’m not sure what it means. Maybe this D wasn’t meant to be busted. I’m not sure, but I think I’m coming closer to a decision everyday. I welcome comments.
Once had a college friend--lived on same floor in the dorms--she and her boyfriend always did the "Hang up.....no YOU hang up....No You Hang Up" game....blech!!!