Please give any and all advice because I am ready for it and will get it and will do it.
"Wife, I have been doing some thinking and here is what I have decided. This isn't working and I want us to separate. I want you to find another place to live. I want you out of here by the first of May. I don't know what I have been thinking and why I have allowed you to have an affair right under my nose while still allowing you to stay in this house. I have decided that I am no longer going to allow that."
That is it. That is your answer. By living together hoping things will change is making you look very very weak. Women are not attracted to weak men. Be strong. Take a strong stance. Much better results.
