But, jus for the record, we didn't actually have sex, just fooled around.
Same principle applies. You are giving mixed messages when you "fool around" with her. She is being unfaithful to you, so you should not have "playtime" with her.
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I made it very clear to her that I'm not waiting around for her if she doesn't want to be with me, and her actions scream that she doesn't. So, she just keeps reinforcing that's true and I'm just ready to get this over with at this point.
If you really mean that, then put all of her clothes out of the master bedroom and throw on the bed in the extra room. Why would you want her crawling in & out of your bed whenever she decides? She doesn't want to live with you right now and you don't want her on these terms, so show her you mean business by getting her things out of your bedroom. You stay in the master bedroom, but put her out. Or you can pack her things up and tell her she can find another place to stay.
Last edited by sandi2; 04/14/1011:11 AM.
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