H called and said that he wanted to take family to movies for family night or else go bowling. I said MIL was going to teach DSD and I to bowl, so he said "forget it, then." Another instance of him feeling I was controlling him, but I was just trying to share.
Personally I think it didn't matter if your MIL was going to take you and DSD at a later date to teach you - that could still have happened. I think you should have gone with the flow. I DO feel that you put obstacles in your way and give your H reasons to get awkward.
I mean, c'mon about the toilet roll? WTF does it matter. You are acting paranoid.
Also, why did you put a blanket on your H? That signalled to him you wanted him to be comfy on the couch, and if I had been him I would have taken it as a sign that that was where you preferred me to be. You shouldn't have done that.
You need to start thinking and stop being so petulant. IMO you are both acting like children and trying to point score off one another. You both sound competitive. So what if he beats you at bowling - not everyone is good at everything - and you have already told us that elsewhere, (ie jobwise etc) you beat your H hands down, so let him feel good about something.
Hopefully you have pretty much knocked the OW thing on the head, so whilst he is feeling sore and low, give hime some things to help him feel better- things that involve you and the family.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
