Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Hi DaddyLongShanks,

I appreciate you helping with my sitch.

It just seems so hopeless sometimes. I think she is on the phone now with her parents planning a divorce from me. I am sure financially they will help and her work has lifecare, so I have a fight for the kids that I do not know if I can win. I also do not have a job.

It is hard to work on myself when I have so many obstacles in my path. It is not impossible because I have made changes, but I they are not as much I would like to.

You are right I am very much affected by the situation, and I do not know how not to be. It is very frustrating to be limited on resources to do anything to protect, my kids, my family and even her from this predator that is destroying my family.

I remain as strong as possible, but I do not know if it is enough. I would like to GAL more, but she is gone from 8 to 8 everyday, and the kids need me to be there for them. I do my best to get a life by talking to friends on the phone and talking to friends like you here and other that have been very helpful and insightful.

If she come backs, she come back, and you could not be more right.

Thanks for posting very much!!!