I also felt being who I was when we were just "dating", had no children, no mortgages, no line of credit, no credit cards, no bills whatsoever and just had our relationship was a tremendous help. He saw me for who I am deep down. Yes, now I'm married, a mom, we have a home, we have debt and blah blah blah, and sometimes those things contribute to covering up the inner you. I think my H lost sight of that. So when I showed him "ME" again thanks to DB'in, GAL'ing, 180's, etc, he had the chance to see who he fell in love with despite all our new life changes. And the day I decided to walk away was the day he realized that he wanted me. And not the old me, but the new me who was the old me just with many new advancements, and changes. His wife!


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14