It's just you know in the past everytime I go dim he loves it and wants more space like last week when I tried he actually came over this week and said when are you leaving?
I want him to feel the rejection too so I hear what you all are saying. I'm willing to try - not sure I can do it.
But it may be the final way to tell him - go, and he may bite. And this is what my MC warns too.
Abbey - where's your thread? I'd like to read your path...thank you for chiming in.
And FM thank you as always for being a constant support. (())
H's main mode is avoidance and denial. This will just encourage that. He never speaks with anyone in his family, and they don't speak with each other. They are comfortable this way.
It's how they deal with uncomfortable feelings - by not dealing.
But still, I'm willing to keep trying, stumble though I may.
