tbart01,

I've been following your sitch. Thank you for your service and welcome home!

Sounds like your W needed and got a lot off of her shoulders today. It was probably a relief for her. I think you did a great job of just listening to her. Not always easy for us guys, we want to fix the problem. The fact that you listened seems to have meant a lot to your W. She told you she was happy by your actions and that this could lead to more trust. Yes, I agree with you that she meant trust that your are real and not fake.

Today's conversation with your W could be the beginning to more open communication. As they say, slow and steady.

Just wanted to let you know that I'm pulling for you.

Best,
mza8


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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