Now, me, I would have started with some more low-hanging fruit, like:

Originally Posted By: OfficerInNeed

- W would call/text to say goodnight (like she use to)
- W would agree to going places with me if I asked w/o saying "Up to you" or "if you want"


The ones you are looking on might come later, when some of the tension between the two of you has eased.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."