Why are you shouting when you type? Why do you have to say "freakin" to get your point across? Why are you so defensive when you hear things you do not like?
Over the course of a few weeks you talked about suicide, leaving your parents home in the middle of the night and moving to a shelter THEN the next day you were okay THEN you were for sure going dark, then gray, now we are nuts to even suggest such a thing and the cycle continues.
Yes, you and your WAW seem to blame an awful lot on other people. If your W knew paperwork was coming and she had not received it for TWO months and her income/medical insurance was riding on the paperwork why didn't she follow up with the person who sent it? It's not your SIL's fault, it's your W fault for not taking care of her own business and being diligent.
You are all over the map and until you are ready to stop reeling and running in circles nothing will change. Since you asked, no, I see nothing positive with what is going on. It's drama and surface changes/gestures. It may not always be that way but for now it is IMO.
