PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY MARRIAGE!

[Onthemountaintop]

Not detectable through technology, maybe.

Imagine your W looking at you and asking you if you're up to something. Staring into your eyes. The W who agreed to MC.

Will your face say anything?

[DadCantBreath]

Sorry for the errors but I'm driving at the moment. I hope to receive the books tomorrow and should also have an audio program from another company. I left a message with the MC today for an appointment.....sooner the better.

[DadCantBreath]

I appreciate everyones response and thoughtful ideas. Things are very friendly tonight but I'm careful as I don't know what she thinks or feels and I haven't attempted to discuss our relationship. I'll leave that to be discussed while we're with the MC. I still haven't read the book to understand the exact actions of a 180 but based on my idea of what that is and addressing issues I've failed to recognize (my issues) I'm taking action for personal growth and change. Something I should have done years ago.

I mustcomment that when I found this site in my state of desperation I had no idea I'd experience the help you all provide. Thanks very much!

[DadCantBreath]

Now it gets confusing as we were intimate last night. I hope this is simply a wake-up call to focus on my marriage but won't count on it. I hope the books arrive today. No matter what the case may be positive changes are on the way!

[DadCantBreath]

I'm glad to report at least I can breathe today!!! Baby steps!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Hi Dad,

Who initiated the LM?

Puppy

[Onthemountaintop]

Great to hear, DCB~

Keep working on making you the best you that any woman would love - especially the one wearing your ring.

[DadCantBreath]

Well, I was offering increasing affection to the point she suggested LM. I'm working on it!

[DadCantBreath]

crap! I just typed a post but my phone lost it! Anyway, I got home and we ended-up LM again. After my W asked if I had an appointment with the MC yet. I know I'm not supposed to talk with her about the Are vuth it went that direction. She told me she's uncertain about the future but is willing to try withe the MC. That being said I'm ready to take my lumps when you all respond with your thoughts. I hope I didn't cause a set-back. I'm just going to be the best darn man this woman can want! No books today so I hope they arrive tomorrow. Thanks everyone for your support and listening to my whining.

[ninelives]

dad

id trade both my books for a little lming. man its been awhile.

sounds like she is willing to work on the m which is half the battle.<<

good luck dad