NM, let me say it again, great to have you back :-) Thanks for the confidence booster.
It IS possible to have a baby and DB. Yes, yes yes!
BIL staying for a few weeks, if not longer. Ticket open...
Mother Nature kicked in this week - she's slowing me down and making more self-protective. Setting boundaries should be made easier.
I am going to scour the web looking for a parenting plan...