I'm pissed off! Still!!! He is very unclear. He doesn't want the dismissal, doesn't want the d, but doesn't want the continuance!!!!? That makes no sense! No wonder I can't get it right....he has too many unvoiced conditions. And even if I keep my cool like for the first part of the conversation...he ignores me like our marriage means nothing! Then I loose it and he seems to enjoy just letting me know what a big loser I am, how awful I am. Doesn't try to work on this by getting over what horrible things we have done this past year to each other but continues to hang on to them and dumps them on me when he's angry!!! I've gotten over all the stuff he's done to me, keep going back to him, sleeping with him but to no avail...he remains angry and vengeful.
I have no hope left that the d can be stopped. I plan to try to get the continuance and my attorney feels that I have a good case for it but the fly in the ointment is my h...should he show up at the hearing and demand the divorce the judge might rule in his favor.
