I'm daydreaming today. What if I could gather my strength and be the WAW now? WHat if I could say "You are right, I dont want to be married to you either. I don't want to be with someone who treats me with so little self respect."
How could I gather the strength?
Hope, I think that would be more effective if you could stick with dim for a month. Build your confidence by protecting yourself from the spew and dealing with your issues. Give yourself some time to gather your strength. There is no emergency here...the only emergency is learning how to protect and care for yourself and your S on all levels.
Last edited by flowmom; 04/14/1003:21 AM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
