By going dark. It will in time, and by practice, give you the strength to say... I CAN survive without every waking second being about your H.
This is a process, take one bite at a time... don't try to swallow the whole roast with one bite.
*hugs* Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.