Quote:That got his attention...he said hell no because it was MY divorce not his!!!
Doesn't sound to me like he really wants the divorce. Sounds like he is saving face by saying get your D, because you have initiated it.
Now, is there a way you can change the continuance to a legal separation for six months to a year and then use that time to db? Could that keep you from losing your financial advantage and perhaps show him you are willing to meet him half way...not go through with D right away, but take time to work things out? Just a few thoughts.
