Puppy,

My post was not a slam directed at you.

I've read this guys post. I see nothing anywhere that suggested in any significant way that there was an extramarital relationship going on.

My opinion may differ from yours - that's not a problem. I respect your level approach to the matter. In this case I happen to feel it's a case of creating a problem that does not appear to exist just yet.

The demise of a marriage is tough enough to deal with, especially early on. I don't see any reason to make matters worse by suggesting an even uglier scenario that simply has not reared it's head yet.

Yes, we all acknowledge that it is far from rare for such a thing to unfold. But let's at least have a good reason to suggest that it's so before heading down that path.

You know I respect all that you do here and your take on how best to deal with such a bad situation.


Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."