What about us guys whom still live in the same home with kids who don't know yet. I have told her that I feel my feelings are changing too and I am not sure I want this either. W tells me she is scared and doesn't know what to do. Always says I don't know. Frustrating. I then let her off the hook after couple days because I feel sorry and sad at the sitch. As robx would say not to be a wuss!!! I need to get there too.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)