W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

The following are revised top 5 goals (as of now). Each is the ultimate goal but with sub-goals (smaller steps) that would lead to the final goal.

1. W would wear wedding ring again
- W would wedding ring more often
- W would wedding ring on/for occasions
- W would wear wedding ring Sunday (memorial service , 04/18)

2. W would kiss/hug me before her/I leave for work each day
- W would hug me " "
- W would call/text to say goodnight (like she use to)
- W would say "hi" when coming home from work / "bye" when leaving to work

3. W would become intimate with me again
- W would not be "shy" around me anymore
- W would sleep in same bed as me
- W would hold hand in public or show some affection for me.

4. W would ask me to go places and do things with her
- W would agree to going places with me if I asked w/o saying "Up to you" or "if you want"
- W will invite me to benefit for co-worker.
- W will attend friends wedding with me

5. W would call to talk to me "just because" when either one of us are at work
- W would text me more often
- W would include more text in each text she sends me

Feedback welcome. Still looking for advice for my sitch. I will compose a list of common responses/statements my W makes and I want to develop a common constructive response to help our sitch.