I agree. This is where we were. This is what turned us around. When I FINALLY detached and actually didn't care anymore. And was okay with the situation and was done with the crap is when H got really really really scared!
He began thinking..."wait a minute, maybe this isn't what I want. All along I have made the decisions and was able to come and go as I pleased and could come home at any time and she would be there waiting for me....but now....(this is when I finally detached) I don't have the choice, I may have lost her for good, I'm not in the driver seat anymore, and if this is a possibility that I have lost her than its not what I want"
And he came home...
Its not turning into the WAS, its detaching and turning into the WAS comes naturally.
hmmmmm. interesting. I'll talk to IC about this reread what PDT, ROB, CG AND EVERYONE ELSE HAS SAID AS WELL.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
