4luv, I would love to give you some advice on how to go about this as I was there. But I did it alllll wrong! I let him in the house within hours of requesting to do so. And didn't hold him accountable for anything. He came home as he pleased and we got no where for 21/2 months. Please do not do that. I'm sure someone will chime in on the correct way to go about things. Good luck! And yay for you!

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14