I'm taking off my ring April 9

[pearlharbr]

I don't think you said anything wrong, just too much. The more you explain your position, the more she will feel the need to defend her position.

You need to let her miss you. If you're still engaging this way you're showing her that you're still very invested in the R. Step back and only communicate with her as you would the mail carrier: pleasant but not overly familiar. Give her something to miss.

FYI - I've been traveling all day, on vacation for the rest of the week so I won't be here as much.