Hey everyone, It's been a while since I posted so I thought I'd update. I got the paperwork from my lawyer and gave it to the wife. She acted appalled. She read it on the way home apparently as she called me 5 times to ask me if I knew what the papers said. I told each time that I did. She kept saying that she was very hurt--wow! That was a week and a half ago. She has still not returned them to me.
Interesting news at work--my boss at higher headquarters tried to call my office a few times and didn't get an answer as we were not there. So, he called my wife's boss and asked her if we were still together and if she needed orders to KEY WEST!!! He said no. WOW!!! They of course told her and she hit the roof. Turns out she may have to do a year in the desert because we are not coded to get an assignment together anymore.
So, I'm living what I call the Gucci life now. Everywhere I go I act happy, confident and just generally have a good time no matter what. I went to a party at a friend's house last weekend and WOW, I got hit on and flirted with like you wouldn't believe. I eventually fell into the company of a very beautiful and very mature(strangely more mature that my 40 year old wife)24 year old if you can believe that.
So, life is good. I quite possibly will be moving with my daughter to Key West very soon and apparently I still have the ability to attract hot women. Sweet!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
You sound really well, and for that I'm so very happy. YOU DESERVE IT. I know I've busted your balls throughout this whole ordeal, but it's only because I wanted what was best for you, and I could see that your wife was toxic to your emotional health.
Be well, and take care of that daughter of yours! Maybe we can tip a glass in Jacksonville sometime.
Good for you AFWAW! I havent read your whole sitch but you sound like you are in a really good place... I am an AF spouse myself so I can relate in that sense. It sounds like you two are dual military, Im just a dependent. Where you stationed at now? Is Key West an assignment?? man, who is lucky enough to get that???!!! I guess you are! lol
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